Separation and Emotional Manifestations of the Child

When a child is separated from its nearest person for a long time, to modify the way with this very serious situation for it offsets:

• First child protests. Screaming, crying, calling "Mom" and waiting for the mother comes off as ever, though it calls for a long time.
• Then the child becomes desperate. When mom is out, the child begins to lose hope and stop screaming. Turn away from the environment and anguished to withdraw into them. Refuses contact with other people (retreats, restricts their), refuses to toys ... A typical manifestation of the head is buried in the pillow.
• Finally, the child from the mother attracts. Gradually suppress her feelings for her and opens the care of another adult who will be replaced by maternity care.

However, when long appears no one would be reports from the mother, the child will have a tendency to lose connection to the people and not before the bond emotionally to things, to a stable object.

Phase of protest, despair and detachment may be different for each child long. It depends on his temperament and situation. Two well educated and beloved children may not behave the same way.

Fear of losing

• These reactions are a manifestation of the child's healthy emotional relationship with his mother. It is a mistake to interpret them as hysteria or vagueness. Babies are naturally afraid of losing the most valuable, as it should.
• If a similar reaction lacking, it is, on the contrary, rather suspicious. This may be because the child is already in previous similar situations advised otužené, but also emotionally damaged.

Curiosity

Child loses hope when it is involuntarily separated from their mothers, if not master the situation (especially if it is paid or odnesené a stranger).

Another case is when the child leaves the child exploring the world of its own decisions. Also experiencing strong emotions, but those tend to be more positive. The child is usually rozradostené or more or less pleasantly surprised by the variety of things through their own activity and curiosity appear.

When the child finds himself a long time without a mother:

• Substitute care (nurse at the hospital) must be especially patient and, if possible, over time only (or one major).
• It's no child time concepts, because they do not understand (mom is coming soon, tomorrow ...).
• In the hospital, parents can attend a child under the Act at any time, so that they would be allowed and practically.
• Objections doctors that the child is always after the departure of parents unnecessarily upset, are not justified. Although the child may be weary, they are proof that the child has a healthy relationship with his mother, of a naturally afraid. Other behavior would be unhealthy manifestation of alienation.
• The child should be allowed in the game. While playing the child relax with us, again survives painful situation and engage it creatively in your life experience. Thanks symbolic play the child can get a useful sense, that is situation (although not really) that it holds true. When it plays another adult, it's help twice. Baby doll injections may sting, save it into cribs, measure its temperature, feed it...

If the child's separation from his family takes a long time and is not aligned to ensure individual care, it can be dangerous for the later development of his personality. Children may react in such a way that it will behave like a baby - "forget" many of what he knows: it will be as will not want to eat alone. In this disease can be emotionally bad situation reflected by the fact that the worse will heal.

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